And I can promise you – if you are worried about your own size – that in bed, it’s not your partner’s length or girth but their performance that matters. Mental satisfaction is what it’s all about. Sex is not limited to physical intercourse. The love and the quality of the time you give each other means more than size. And from that, I’ve taken the very clear lesson that having sex is not just about the sex – it’s an important moment, which is only good when you feel safe with someone and your partner treats you well.įor me the kisses and embraces are the most important part. The law of averages means, of course, that most of the sex I’ve had has been with guys with an average penis. I simply can’t say that I have had better experience with larger guys. I’ve met plenty of guys in my time, of all different sizes, but honestly as a bottom I can’t agree that bigger is always better. Frankly I can say we had some of the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. Not shocked that it was anything unusual but only because of the mental picture he put in my mind.ĭespite this, I have to say I really enjoyed myself with him and the smaller-than-advertised size of his penis made no difference at all. So when we met in person I was a little shocked to see his little master. We chatted a lot on phone, including talking about sex and he boasted about his size a lot. My first relationship was with someone I met online was with a guy I met on Facebook. Can this size worship be one reason gay romances are so fragile?
After this it seems everyone wants to put their hands in a new man’s underwear, wondering what new and big thing they will find there. I have often seen gay relationships fail after three or four sex meetings.